There Are Many Fish In The Sea

Many guys think they have to put all their effort to get one woman. They get stressed out when approaching women because they fear rejection yet there are beautiful women everywhere so if you meet a bunch of women then your chances of getting along with at least one is really large. From this perspective getting rejected is a blessing as you can move on to the next woman who may be more in sync with you.

Truly understanding that there are many fish in the sea means that you can meet tons of women with confidence and not care about 'getting' her. The type of seduction that involves getting a woman - every woman possible - reeks of desperation and insecurity. Real seduction is fun. You get along with the woman you are talking to. Women are very intuitive and know when they are being hit on so there is no question of 'secretly' seducing her. If she likes you and you act properly then you have high chances of getting a date.

Many men function from a poverty consciousness which assumes that there are very few women available and you have to struggle to get one and fear being rejected because that decreases the number of women you can meet and it just proves you are a loser. That sort of mentality can never really lead to fun and exciting dating but more of a needy type of dating experience.

There are so many women and these women are looking for men to date. So have fun, don't cling, always talk to many women and date allot. This will keep you from obsessing about one woman or relationship.

Having a sense of freedom when dating that 'I don't have to get this woman I'm with I can just have fun talking' is a quality that women find very attractive and can make you even more successful at dating.